Please Note: This 'challenge' is automated and you can start anytime. When you sign up you'll be sent an email each day over 45 days to support you in your own Devotional practice. 

45 Soft 


A very playful challenge inspired by Andy Frisella's 75 hard - with so much respect to everyone who has taken part in his challenge!

This 'challenge' has a very different purpose though, its not about discipline, its about devotion; gently coming home to and appreciating your softness.

This is not a paid program, its not a mindset program and its not a transformation program, its an invitation to fall in love with your softness. It will be facilitated by me, but led by you.


Re-member your wild, delicious, juicy softness.

Reconnect with yourself, your receptivity, your creativity, your joy and your pleasure.

  • No hard and fast rules
  • No way to fail 
  • Daily love notes to lovingly support you as you play your way through 45 days of remembering.
Sign me up


Listen. See. Smell. Taste. Touch. Feel. 


A 45 day devotional commitment to help you re-set and re-calibrate softly.

You're invited to connect with: 

  • Pleasure
  • Meditation
  • Writing
  • Movement
  • Art
  • Reading
  • Nature
  • Yourself
I'm in


The only payment commitment, is to pay it forward

Invite at least one person to join you. Do this with your partner, with your children, with your BFF, your sister, uncle or cousin.

  • There are no limitations
  • There are no excuses
  • It gets to be purely  pleasurable & just for FUN
  • You can participate fully without spending a penny
Take my email already!

Are you in?


Get love notes and guidance to support you in this devotional experience delivered to your inbox.

Enjoy this Devotional 'challenge' for free.

What happens next...

You'll receive a confirmation email and be invited to share. You can do this alone or with a friend. There is no set schedule, start whenever you want. 

You'll get a short and sweet email every day with a prompt and a reminder of 'the rules.'


When I ran this 'challenge' live I posted on Instagram and so did everyone else, you can follow along or share your progress with #45soft